Brutally Frank

This is a new line of thought that i am considering. Yes my outlook has been thoroughly anti social because of this quality. But maybe then there is grain of reason in being socially euphemistic towards one and all. An eye for an eye leaves the world blind. But now honesty in its purest form is not a socially desirable trait neither does it benefit you in some ways. Where there is a need to be warm, supportive, "pat your back and lift your spirit kind".

The trouble is this competitive world leaves one a cynic and I do not mind in leading, as used in lie to me, a radically honest person. Until I figured recently, its all immaturity and highly toxic in a social world. We are after all mutually supportive cohesive bunch of people who aim to be more productive together. Thus hurting someone's feelings with the in your face'ness does create uncomfortable scenes. I think there is balance as in all things. One has to be honest while giving criticism so as to help someone improve their lives in some ways, but that has to be laced with a sweet layer of support and positiveness to make the point.

This form of frankness and mixed with ego (guilty as charged) will undoubtedly lead to downfall. Thank goodness it happens early enough to not be critically damaged. By now no one would have read the cryptic message of this post (hardly anyone reads it anyways) but I still like the idea of expressing myself. Trouble is words don't do justice.